Tuesday, 22 November 2016
Casino ou vous rendre pour votre lune de miel
Encore en pleins prйparatifs ou tout juste maries, vous vous rendez soudain compte qu'il faut aussi pensez au voyages de noces.... Dur, Dur ... Que choisir? Paris et sa splendide Tour Eiffel, l'Egypte et ses pyramides ou encore le romantisme de Venise et ses cйlиbres gondoles ou encore les Caraпbes?
Et chйri qui n'est pas d'accord sur votre choix? Alors pourquoi ne pas partir a Las Vegas!
Las Vegas, autre ses casinos, vous permet en effet de dйcouvrir les sept merveilles du monde en un clin d'oeil. Vous voulez Paris et le charme de ses cafйs? Pas de problиme, rendez-vous au Paris Las Vegas! Ici, des votre arrivйe, la Tour Eiffel, l'Arc de triomphe sans oublier le cйlиbre opйra Garnier vous accueillent a bras ouverts! Dans une architecture trиs Franchie style Haussmannien, vous retrouvez toutes les spйcialitйs franзaises et europйennes au sein de ses fameux restaurants, sans oublier son casino.
Envie subite de vous dйpayser. Rendez-vous Venetian! A Venise et ses gondoles... Quelle femme digne de ce nom ne souhaiterait pas passez sa lune de miel dans ce dйcor pittoresque, et rкvasser comme une jeune fille a l'aube de ses 20 ans, en attendant Casanova... Venez vous dйtendre au Venetian. Cet hфtel recrйe pour vous les fameux canaux, les gondoles, les palais vйnitiens et la rйplique de la Piazza San Marco. Elйgance et raffinement caractйrisent le Venetian et ses 3000 chambres. Le Venetian abrite йgalement une superbe galerie d'art avec le Guggenheim Hermitage Museum. Et pour dйcouvrir encore plus de l'Italie, direction le Tuscany Suites Casino
Pour les nostalgiques d'Astйrix et Obelix et du fameux Ave Cйsar, prйcipitez vous vite au Caesar's Palace! Conзue sur le modиle de la Rome antique, le Caesar's Palace accueille йgalement des championnats du monde de boxe et des grands spectacles de vedette.
Envie de vous retrouvez sur une оle paradisiaque? Essayer le Tahiti! Ses bananiers, les tropiques et les plages de sable fin... Pourquoi trop attendre..
Mais me direz vous, cela ne remplace en rien le paysage rйel du pays dйsirй. VRAI! Mais voyez tous les avantages: en un clin d'oeil, vous pourrez bйnйficiez des meilleures expйriences de chacun des pays, vous laissant une trace de nostalgie au point de vous dire "l'annйe prochaine, sur, on part a ...". L'autre bon cote de la chose: vous et chйri n'йtiez pas d'accord sur la destination, au moins chacun aura eu le droit de goыter а son plaisir et , pour les vacances а venir, pas de problиmes de qui prйfиre quoi, puisque vous aurez auparavant, grвce а Las Vegas, chacun pu йvaluer la qualitй de telle ou telle place et vous en faire une grande idйe qui facilitera vos choix a venir.
En effet, les chefs d'oeuvres comme la Tour Eiffel de Paris sont reproduites au millimиtre prиs dans les moindres dйtails, grandeur nature. Donc pas de mauvaises surprises. De plus, aprиs des heures de promenade d'un "pays" a un autre, rien de mieux que de se dйtendre en jouant aux jeux de casino tel le poker et ses variantes.
Sunday, 18 September 2016
Journey to the top
Are you looking for career growth? Are you targeting your boss' seat or maybe even his/her boss' seat?! If so, it shows you have the passion and the desire to lead. You want to be empowered to deliver results.
This article is for people who are aspiring to get to the top and also for people at the top who are looking for their successors.
People get motivated by different things and for different reasons to get to the top. For some, it could be the job title, the car, social status, an improved standard of living or even a fat pay check. While for others it could be the challenge in itself, or an opportunity to learn and grow or an opportunity to make a difference. Whatever your motivation, always remain motivated, particularly in crunch moments, along your journey to the top!
I often come across people who share with me their desire to grow. However, they mostly look for instant solutions in a '2-minute noodle economy'. In such situations I also give an instant 'pep' talk! The deeper you explore the more you discover, for example, absorbing a 2-mins pep-talk can be easy, but applying the principles is the tough part.
In one of my previous articles (Before Winning the Gold Medal (January 2005), I had clearly specified that you first need to 'be' and then earn what you intend 'being'. For instance, pilots initially learn flying, not by actually flying in a real plane, but in simulators on the ground. Simulate some of the key characteristics you observe in your chosen role model, but not only the way the person talks or dresses. This is just the tip of the iceberg. Go deeper. Understand what happens at the top. It is a very different playing field from where you currently sit and see. The nearest way to glory - a shortcut, as it were - "is to strive to be what you wish to be thought to be" -- Socrates (469-399 BC) Greek Philosopher
Here are four key perspectives from the top. Simulate them and deliver on your desires:
1) Get things done:
Effective bosses get things done. Yes, they may seem to have more 'authority' than people down the line, but never forget, no one enjoys absolute power. At every level there are challenges. The higher up you go in the corporate ladder, the more authority you end up having. But the demands placed upon you are equally big. Bosses appreciate people who can get things done. Think about it - your company seniors have goals to achieve, just like you. While plans need to be flexible, goals are fixed. They would never like to have people who persistently fail to meet objectives assigned and people who have a habit of coming up with excuses instead of desired results.
Recently, during a short break in our workshop, I came across some people who were discussing when was the right time to move from one company to another. They were evaluating the pros and cons of job shifting every two years. My suggestion to them was simple, "Consider moving only when you have made a visible, impactful & sustainable contribution to your existing workplace." It is not how long you stay that matters - it is eventually what you deliver - the legacy you leave behind. Your move must be seamless, with a successor in place, before you venture to newer and bigger things.
2) Let solutions motivate
It is pointless to complain that bosses are de-motivating. Go-getters are internally motivated. They don't rely on the external motivators like appreciation or a pat on the back - although it feels good to hear a nice word now and then! Your greatest motivation is your achievement - the work you get done. At the end of the day it revs up and adds spice to your resume and eventually your growth. Since the concept here is simulating the top, think and reflect who motivates your company/ organization/institution head. Who motivates your CEO? It is a lonely position, where at times you cannot openly share your fears and concerns as it may have a negative impact on the team. CEOs are usually motivated by the corporate results their team delivers. See your current job as a business. Be self-inspired and solution-oriented. 'SOLO-U-TIONIST i. e. people who take responsibility for solutions are always in demand. I recently read a quote some where that said, I don't like work... but I like what is in work -- the chance to find yourself. Your own reality -- for yourself, not for others -- which no other man can ever know.
3) Promote teamwork
The person at the top understand that work gets done through teamwork. Functional silos and communication barriers kill efficiency and productivity. Therefore, learn to involve others in finding solutions to get things done! Last thing you want in your path to excellence is enemies - this in no ways means that you please everyone. By helping others achieve their goals, you will get cooperation from them In your own success.
Remember the story of the hare and tortoise? The message was 'slow and steady wins the race'. Some years back I read another version*. Moral of the new story is that if we work together, combine energies, a much greater and better result can be achieved. Even when eating food (assuming you eat with fingers) you need to use all your four fingers and your thumb, and they are all of different sizes.
Fairness in your approach with team players discourages biasness. Bosses are there not because they are technically more competent, but because they understand how to work with people and know the art of unleashing human genius by being fair and firm. That is leadership. To get to the top_ appreciate others' contribution, and when necessary, hold people to account.
4) Coach yourself
We often hear that managers need to be coaches. But who coaches the top? You often find people down the line blaming their seniors for not developing them. Change this paradigm. Learning is all around you. Be connected. There are people around you who are your biggest coaches. People at the top visibly have no coaches, but use people around them as their coaches. Successful executives listen, observe, feel, sense, evaluate and talk to all kinds of people. They learn from every interaction thereby making effective decisions.
Getting to the top is an aspiration - but requires plenty of perspiration. It is not always as sweet as it looks on the top. It takes great responsibility to be at the helm of affairs - be aware of what you wish for and prepare yourself at every point along the way.
In case you are at the top, sit with your team members/direct reports and clarify what you expect from them and how this essay could be a document for commencing a dialogue on succession planning and management development in your organization.
So you want to get to the top?
Monday, 1 August 2016
5 reasons to not let depression control you anymore
Family – It can be very vexing to loved one’s when you are depressed. On one hand they want nothing but the best for you, but on the other they sometimes get frustrated and wonder why you can’t simply snap out of it. It can be particularly hard on children of someone with depression as it may affect their outlook on life for many years to come. Having experienced this myself, I can say definitely this the number one reason to fight your depression.
Work - Work life generally suffers when in the throws of depression. It is more difficult to concentrate and not as easy to create and maintain good professional working relationships and partnerships. Furthermore, it makes being a “Self-starter” more unlikely. Rather than moving forward, maintaining the status-quo becomes more acceptable, even if only unconsciously.
Love – The love life of a person with depression can suffer tremendously. Regardless of How much someone may profess their dedication to another person, if the other person can never see the bright side, it can wear on them. Life is short, right? Love conquers A WHOLE LOT, but it doesn’t conquer everything. Sometimes we must add internal fortitude to love to truly be invincible. Besides isn’t it better to fight, not just for you, but for this person that you love as well?
Health – University studies have proven that people who are depressed are more likely to get sick, and more likely to die of an illness than those who are content. It is in your benefit, health wise, to fight your depression as well. A recent New York Times article, citing a University study, indicated that persons who have been diagnosed as depressed have more hospital visits, and a shorter lifespan.
Prosperity – The depressed person sometimes lacks clarity of thought, and may miss golden opportunities to improve their lives if only they had been paying attention. This may be, perhaps, the most important point, since many people believe they would be happier if only this part of their life, or that part of their life, etc was different. Allowing good things to happen in your life might just give you the jump start needed to end the cycle of depression and self imposed-isolation( even if only figuratively ).
Fighting depression can help your life in many ways. In some ways, the fight in itself is also a reward. You become stronger, do better at work, have better relationships, and can focus on what is really important in life so that you can improve it, for yourself, your family, friends, and loved ones.
Wednesday, 6 July 2016
4 quick and easy tips on how-to become the person of your dreams
Quick question...
What would you like to be when you grow up?
I bet you often heard this question asked many times when you were still young from your parents and relatives.
But, have you really given that question some deep thoughts?
Different people have different dreams.
So, what's your aspiration? Do you want to become a doctor, lawyer, pilot, or entertainer?
Or...
Would you like to be a Tom Cruise or Bill Gates?
Let me tell you right now, you can become what you want to become. You can become anything you want to be as long as you put your Mind and Heart into it.
I recommend you read some biographies of the people who inspire you the most. It's a great way to give you some guidance through their experiences they share within their biographies as to how they got to where they are today.
Here are 4 more quick tips and words of encouragement to keep you all fired up towards becoming who you want to be in life.
Tip #1.
Learn as much as possible about the person you aspire to be. Let's say your dream is to become a basketball player.
Gather all facts and information about the sport. Research on the internet, read books, watch the games and analyze team strategies; in other words, strive to be an Expert.
Tip #2.
You must have the Desire and Passion to know everything you can about the subject. If you can have a real person to imitate or look up to, the better.
For example, you may see yourself as Michael Jordan (for basketball), Mariah Carey (for singing), or Heide Klum (for modeling). Feel, talk, and act as if you're that person you're emulating. You'll quickly acquire the behavior and qualities of that person. This formula works like a charm, so just give it a try.
Tip #3.
Take Motivated Action and start pursuing your dreams!
Don't wait for everything to be perfect. That will never happen. There will always be bumps and obstacles ahead. The important thing is to start Right NOW and adjust along the way.
You'll be glad did.
Tip #4.
Persist until the VERY end.
Never let failures distract you. Just keep pushing yourself to the limit.
If you think that a task seems impossible to accomplish, banish that thought... Immediately!
Your mind has the capacity to bring into reality anything you desire.
As long as you stay Focused and Patient on your objective despite any setbacks or discouragements, you will become successful much sooner than you may think.